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 満足と満足は永続的な幸福につながるとよく言われます。 同意しません。 どちらかといえば、人生で幸せになるには反対のことが必要です。より多くのこと、より多くのことをしたいという願望、つまりドライブは、絶妙な情熱の状態の実現を促進します。 幸福と定義される「情熱の状態」。 幸福はそれ以上のものではなく、自分自身をより良くするために費やすプロセス、努力、仕事の副産物です。目標の実現から来る幸福は短命であり、空腹、空腹が続きますが、新しい目標の実現による自己の満足によってのみ満足されます。私たちがしばしば立ち往生する不安定なループ。 幸福は、それが追求している目標の実現にはありません。 幸福は物を所有することから来るのではなく、それらが私たちに与えることを可能にする経験から来るのです。 あなたよりも何かを持っている人が常にいるので、他の人よりも多くを持っていることに彼らの幸せを基づかせている人は決して幸せではありません。その何かはしばしばお金として定義されます。難問は、この仮説が正しいか間違っているかではありません-ある人にとってはそうである、ある人にとってはそうではありません。 難問は、その「何か」が、広く受け入れられている社会的枠組みの中でどのようにしてお金になってしまったのかということです。 あなたが幸せのために支払うことができるすべてのものの中で、お金ははるかに安いです。 おそらく、人間として私たちはすべてを可能な限り低い分母で定義する傾向があり、この場合(幸福)-それはお金でした。それは明白で、測定、比較などが簡単です。しかし、富の振幅と幸福を並置することは、人間の本性を解読するための非常に些細な/粗雑なアプローチです。 しかし、より深い調査により、私たち人間がこのマクガフィンの定義を完全に制御できることが明らかになります。それぞれの人は自分の目的を定義し、追求する能力を持っています-それは彼らが自分の周りに建てた幸福の認識にある程度影響を与えるでしょう。 だから今問題は 私たち自身の幸福のための主要な指令をどのように定義しますか? 私たちの生活の中で変数に値を割り当てるにはどうすればよいですか? どの目標を追いかけることが私たちを最も幸せにするでしょうか? 普遍的な答えはないと思います。私たち一人一人が自分自身を定義し、その追求から幸せを引き出す必要があります

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 If a man had to  step back and think about how he behaves toward a woman, you will find  that he tends to hide his desires. When this happens, he will give the impression that he does not have them. 

 Otherwise everything will be as if there are only  a few basic needs. In any case, this means that he does not appear completely and all or most of his needs remain unmet. 

 Two Scenarios 

 When you hide your desires from a woman you are having a conversation with during sex, it is unlikely that you will have the same effect as  a woman  in an intimate relationship. The former can be a little disappointing to him, and the latter can be a big disappointment. 

 With this in mind, he will pay for this behavior, even if he is not in a romantic relationship. And if he is in a relationship, the price  he pays will have a huge impact on almost every area of ​​his life. 

  Part 1 

 Now, assuming he's in a relationship, he'll find that very early on he  focused entirely on his partner's needs. So if he needed something, he was there, and if there was something she wanted to do, he was ready. 

 This means he's neglecting himself, but it  also means he's getting her recognition and attention. This will make him lose contact for most  needs. 

  Part 2 

 As time passed, her approval and attention might not have been enough to make him forget that he was missing out on other needs, so he might have started to get angry and resentful. After satisfying another need, the need for a relationship with a woman, he becomes able to access  other needs. 

  

 This does not mean that he can express what is actually happening to him now. This may be a time when he is passive-aggressive or no longer has the same level of interest. 

  Third part 

 Sometimes a  partner pushes or moves away. On the other hand, he understands what is going on and can keep a relationship for  years. 

. If he is not in this position  now, he may have been in such a relationship before. However, these actions do not help him and he must begin to express his needs. 

 A lot of discomfort 

 If you imagine expressing your own needs, you may experience considerable fear and anxiety. This can be seen as making him reject and quit. 

 Thus, the point is  that he can express a need to his partner (or another woman), and she will not be close to or meet this need. An expression of need will force her to step back and leave him. Moreover, his life would come to an end. 

 One Outlook 

 If expressing what he needs is what's going on inside him, you can expect him to  do his best to hide his desires. Hiding his needs would make him painful, but at least not as bad as what he sees as an alternative. 

 It does not arise to him that  his needs can be met and that even if his partner cannot be satisfied, that does not mean that she will leave him. There is nothing like negotiation in his world model, at least when it comes to interacting with women. 

 A Deeper Look 

 To understand why he led this life, it's good  to take a closer look at  his childhood. Perhaps this was a time when he did not receive the care he needed  to grow and develop. 

 It would have  been so neglected that it would usually have been a erroneous notice when  given  attention. In other words, he did not receive the proper care  he needed. 

 A Brutal Time 

 When you actually express your need with abandonment, you come to believe that you will stay if you need it. Due to the fact that at this stage of his life he was self-centered, he would take everything personally. 

 This will prevent him from realizing that he is not left behind because he needs it. He was left behind because his mother had her own problems. At this stage of his life, he was regularly rejected and abandoned. 

 already passed. 

 Many years have passed in that  stage of his life,  but he will not know this as the heart of his being. The pain  he suffered over the years  will remain in his body and he will do everything possible to contain it. If he had a 

Partner,  the other women  he met would unconsciously represent his mother and be seen as the key to his survival. Therefore, refusing to reveal one's needs and tolerating them  will be the way  to contain this pain  and  survive.

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